QuestionsCategory: RelationshipsHow do I (32M) tell my friend (30F) that I have feelings for her?
CakehongCakehong asked 1 month ago

I’ve known her since we were in college together and we’ve drifted in and out of each others lives. Over the the last few years through other mutuals we’ve started coming in contact with each other more and more and I’ve developed serious feelings for her. For the last six months she’s been dating a guy that no one in our group really likes, but they do seem to make each other happy.

He recently proposed to her and they want to get married pretty quickly. I don’t know what I should do, I really want to tell her that I have feelings for her before the wedding. What do you think?

1 Answers
CrescentDeepCrescentDeep answered 1 month ago

When the wedding comes up, go to the wedding, bring a date, and have a good time. Seeing them together will help you get over her. If she is happy with her new partner you are just going to screw things up.